I Wanted To Go Camping…God Help Us All!


Although I was born and raised in a small South Central Texas town, I never knew all that much about true rurality. Compared to some of the kids I grew up with, I was by all intents and purposes, a “city” girl. I never knew anything about feeding beasts of burden, slopping swine or milking bovine.

I was always a fan of the marvels of electricity, too. I liked overhead lighting and lamps and air conditioning and I’ve always heralded whoever invented plumbing. Was it the Romans?

Anyway, I’d never gone camping in my life. Never ever wanted to go, but my cousin Dawn loved it. She’d been trying to get me to go “camping” with her since we were kids. Her mother, Corinne (my favorite aunt) also loved the feel of sleeping in nature which I found completely unnatural.

After almost 20 years of harassing and haranguing me about going camping, I finally relented.

It was the summer of 1985. I’d just graduated from college that May and was living in San Antonio, trying to secure a job as a nubile anchor/reporter in television. (I assure you, THAT is a whole other post!!!) So, Corrine and Dawn called me and said that the coming weekend would be the weekend in which I would finally go camping.

We were going to do so at the beach…more specifically Port Aransas (pronounced Uh-RANZ-us) and fortunately for me, my aunt had just bought one of those 18-foot long pop up campers. It slept six…which meant the three of us would have our own “bed” (as it were) and it also had something of an abbreviated kitchenette that dispensed potable water. In this conversation, I asked about its bathroom facilities and my aunt told me that it was HUGE. I thought “Great! I love big bathrooms”. Then she explained that by huge, she meant the Gulf of Mexico would be my toilet.

And everyone else’s.

I cannot tell you how disgusted this made me. You see, I love Texas Gulf shrimp. I envisioned looking down at my next bowl of Scampi. I could see no shrimp in there…just shrimp shaped doo-doos.


At the time, lo these 20-plus years ago, my cousin, my aunt and I were big party people. The drink always flowed whenever we got together and this camping weekend promised to be no exception. We loaded up the coolers (plural) with ice, more beer than Hank Hill could swill, and one gallon bottle of Cuba’s best import. My aunt loved Cuba Libras…Coke, rum and a squeeze of line.

Ah yes, getting loaded. I’d be comfortably numb when I would further soil the delicate eco-system of the Gulf of Mexico. I wouldn’t care about spoiling the “pristine” nature of the filthy water than buoyed tar balls, hypodermic needles and vile, unidentifiable flotsam.

Now this is important: that summer I decided to go chic and got my hair cut very short as was the style back then. It was cute, but very short. All you 40-somethings should think: Pat Benatar and Liza Minelli (before she discovered Ativan and carbohydrates).

We finally arrived at Port Aransas and found a nice spot, not far from the shoreline. The beach was crowded. Vacationing families, rough looking scooter trash straight from the cast of “Lost Boys” and rowdy teenagers all hopped up on goof balls.

This was going to be fun.

We got the camper in working order, pulled out the coolers, unfolded the folding chairs, slipped on our swim suits and began drinking. We did what any 56, 25 and 22 year old educated women would do while drunk at the beach….we started harassing every man who strolled by. The cat calls were so classy:

“Hey there Joy Pecs..how you doin’?…”

“Hi ya, Love Chunks!”

“Show us your muscular May pole, Daddy!”

It was great fun. The drunker we got though, “may pole” became “maple”, hence only becoming relevant if a guy from Vermont walked by.

We laughed and drank and drank and laughed. Then the afternoon slipped into evening.

The moon was full and it was lovely. It, in combination with the phosphorous in the waves, created a very beautiful sight. It was so light out, you could almost see without a flashlight!

By 11 o’clock that night it was time to pass out. My aunt announced that the camper door was locked, but all four sides were nothing but screens and therefore, completely easy access for any would be rapist.

So, in order to protect her charges from anything that goes “hump” in the night, Corrine had an Anthony Perkins/Psycho regulation butcher knife that she’d keep right by her side.

Dawn and I were so waxed, we didn’t care.

hours later, we were awakened by what sounded like a Camaro with glass packs and high performance headers idling right outside our camper. Some classic Nazareth was blaring over the car speakers. A young male voice (obviously inebriated) called out….”Hey, any chicks in there? Hey??? Are there any chicks inside this camper..thingie??”

By that time, my cousin Dawn sat up in bed, her long hair cascading down her shoulders…they could see her silhouette in the moonlight. Dawn said nothing….Corinne then sat up, knife in her hand…at the ready.

“Alright Chicks! We found some chicks. Say, any of you chicks wanna party? We can have fun. We got all kinds of party favors?”

Well when I heard that, I sat up!!

They took one look at my, my short haired silhouette and we heard them say, “Oh, there’s a dude in there with ’em. Sorry dude. Didn’t mean to hit on your bitches”.

And they drove away.

At that point, I screamed, “But wait…what about the party favors???”

Corrine admonished me saying, “Laurie! Behave yourself! God knows what would’ve happened had we answered them”. And then my aunt, Corrine the Unhip said, “Besides , they were looking for Negroes”.

Dawn looked at me with an odd expression “Mom, what do you mean by that?”

Corrine replied, “Because they were looking for “dudes” and all Negroes are called dudes”.

I tried to to remember if I’d ever heard that one before. Dawn and I had no idea what she was referring to. We wrote it off as rum and menopause talking, along with her 1930’s and 40’s South Central Texas upbringing.

“Goodnight girls” Corrine said as she drifted back to sleep.

Dawn whispered, “Good thing you had short hair!”

“Yeah..good thing”, I answered, but I wasn’t happy about the gender confusion. I suddenly felt very self-conscious about my appearance. I cursed the Kendrick gene that gave me these damned Bronko Nagurski shoulders!!!! And as Dawn reminded me, my short hair only helped the ambiguity.

We went back to sleep and and slept through the night, uninterrupted.

The next morning, Corinne and Dawn were extremely hungover and I had a complex about looking mannish.

We cut our trip short and arrived back home by 1:30 that afternoon.

By Christmas, my hair was much longer. (All you 40 somethings: think the funky, geometric, reverse Mohawk hair style of the lead singer from “Flock of Seagulls”


On New Year’s Eve, my aunt, Dawn and I went camping again at the beach. It was a lovely, moonlit night. Well, the exact same thing happened, but this time, I was mistaken for a big wrench.


  1. That sounds like a lot of fun!
    Tho camping on a beach with a kitchen and mixed drinks is hardly roughing it.

    I never *want* to go camping, but once I’m dragged into the great outdoors, I enjoy it, so long as we leave behind the accouterments. As a woman from the south, I always get stuck with kitchen duty.

    I love dark nights, relaxing on the bed of a pickup, staring at the bonfire, with a tepid beer in my fat little hand. (That’s what I do in my backyard when not camping).

  2. That was a great story, you had me laughing so much!!!!!!!!!! Thanks, I had a rough day!!!

  3. Corrine replied, “Because they were looking for “dudes” and all Negroes are called dudes”.

    Ha…nice…i don’t think i’ve ever heard of a “negro” being called a dude. Maybe out in california where everyone is dude or “brah”.

    Good story…as usual!

  4. Man, camping is always such fun. That sounds like what happens whenever my dad and I go camping, except of course that we’re not looking at what guys are packing … *blech*

    But ahh … the drink doth flow.

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